Being spoiled as the only child for a periodic time had its ups and downs. For me at least, I feel like it did, because you’re around this one person 24/7 that has this cherishing loving spirit like no one you know. Yet it was a proven gift & a curse, because even though my mom spoiled me.. That attention didn’t come from everyone, only her. I had to learn over time that there’s no one like Momma. My mom gave me the best years of my life with her comfort and just knowing she will be there, that alone always made me feel secure. It’s a blessing now to be able to teach others the benefit of Momma and having my story to tell, but at the end of the day I just want her back.
It is what it is though. The thing about my mom is that she didn’t show favoritism when my siblings came along, she spoiled all three of us. We all got a different type of love from her that we all appreciated then and now. Her love was always differed because we came at different times in her up coming so she was at different levels of maturity so we got different loves from her yet it all was genuine and I personally wouldn’t change it at all.
There was nothing that I needed that she didn’t make happen for me, and even though it wasn’t the best of the best, it was top notch to me. Other kids spoiling looked a lot fancier then my spoiling, but my spoiling came with pure love and sacrifice of her last. I miss and love you Pamela Marie Sephes. If I can send any message to all the children across the world it would be to cherish those times with momma because tomorrow with her isn’t promised at all.
I’m 1000% sure if she were still here physically alive and healthy that she would give us her best. My mom always supported us I just wish she had more time with my other offspring’s, but she’s here with us and we carry her in the best form and fashion we possibly can. We all are mommas babies but I know during that only child era of her and I, I was always mommas boy.